Love After Marriage

Love After Marriage Application Form

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Couples Information


To whom did you submit your pastor/leader recommendation to and on what date and through what means (Download theLAM pastoral recommendation here [opens in a new page]  and please send it to your church leader)

 His Survey

His Survey

Husbands please read through the survey together and take time to pray before you give your answers. Each spouse will fill out a separate survey and do so independently of one another.

1. (Tick all that apply) Why do you want to participate in this marriage workshop?

2. (Tick all that apply) Which statement best represents you?

3. (Select one) Which Statement best describes your current spiritual state?

4. (Tick all that apply) Which statement best describes your current emotional/ relational state?

5. (Tick all that apply) Which of the following best describes the area of greatest need in your marriage?

6. We’re asking all couples to be willing to participate in a “couples’ coaching” time during the workshop called Spirit Connection. This coaching time allows you to receive specialized help in an area that hinders your marriage and it often proves helpful for the rest of the group.
Please indicate how you feel about participating in couples’ coaching during the workshop. Not every couple that signs up will have the opportunity to do this because of time constraints.
Select one

9. Are you interested in bringing Love After Marriage to your church?

11. The structure of LAM requires that we choose one couple to co- facilitate each table group. We choose the leaders based on the surveys and the Lord’s leading. If we choose you, it is because we feel that you are the best choice for your group. As co-facilitator, you and your spouse will be able to wholeheartedly go after your breakthrough while facilitating. By leading your group with openness and vulnerability, your example will help lead the rest of the group to their breakthroughs. We will give you plenty of notice if we are going to ask you to do this role.

(Select one) How would you feel about being chosen to co-facilitate a small group?

Her Survey

Wives please read through the survey together and take time to pray before you give your answers. Each spouse will fill out a separate survey and do so independently of one another.

1. (Tick all that apply) Why do you want to participate in this marriage workshop?

2. (Tick all that apply) Which statement best represents you?

3. (Select one) Which Statement best describes your current spiritual state?

4. (Tick all that apply) Which statement best describes your current emotional/ relational state?

5. (Tick all that apply) Which of the following best describes the area of greatest need in your marriage?

6. We’re asking all couples to be willing to participate in a “couples’ coaching” time during the workshop called Spirit Connection. This coaching time allows you to receive specialized help in an area that hinders your marriage and it often proves helpful for the rest of the group.
Please indicate how you feel about participating in couples’ coaching during the workshop. Not every couple that signs up will have the opportunity to do this because of time constraints.
Select one

9. Are you interested in bringing Love After Marriage to your church?

11. The structure of LAM requires that we choose one couple to co- facilitate each table group. We choose the leaders based on the surveys and the Lord’s leading. If we choose you, it is because we feel that you are the best choice for your group. As co-facilitator, you and your spouse will be able to wholeheartedly go after your breakthrough while facilitating. By leading your group with openness and vulnerability, your example will help lead the rest of the group to their breakthroughs. We will give you plenty of notice if we are going to ask you to do this role.
(Select one) How would you feel about being chosen to co-facilitate a small group?

How did you hear about us?

Love After Marriage Agreement

This marriage workshop is designed to teach, and impart understanding and anointing for a Godly, fulfilling marriage. This is a workshop rather than simply just a teaching time. As such you will have ample opportunity for sharing and practicing communication and other skills essential to a healthy marriage. If talking and sharing is difficult for you, then you will need to be prepared to go past your comfort zone. But we only ask you to share as much as the Holy Spirit is prompting you to share. You will need to make a sincere effort in order to benefit from the exercises.This a safe environment where people who risk and are vulnerable by sharing openly will not be embarrassed or criticised but rather encouraged.

We are asking for a full 3.5 day or 18 session commitment, making this a high priority for your marriage and giving you the opportunity to make a lifestyle change. So we are asking that your participation in this workshop reflect your resolve to make your marriage the best it can be.
We believe that God will come and manifest as “wonderful counsellor” for you during this workshop but we also understand that some issues have longstanding roots in very deep hurts that may have been unconsciously covered with coping mechanisms. These kinds of wounds may be brought closer to the surface through the process of the sharing and require some specialised help beyond the scope of the workshop. If this becomes the case for you, we will suggest appropriate help if desired.
Because of the costs and administrative requirements to conduct the workshop, there is a set fee per couple. Our desire is that you will come out of this experience with a greater understanding of your spouse and a greater enjoyment of connecting on a personal, intimate level in your marriage. In signing this agreement you agree to participate in the workshop to best of your ability trusting God for good outcomes & you understand that the workshop facilitators and table facilitators are not professional counsellors or therapists but are volunteers who have completed the LAM course themselves. We operate a high level confidentiality in LAM and only disclose information out side of the workshop if we are legally obliged to do so.

I give my permission for NHM UK&I to store my contact information on their database and I am aware that any photographs taken at the workshop may be used for promotional material unless I otherwise state.

*Please sign this agreement by typing your names and the date into the boxes below.

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